THIS!!!!! THIS is the way to truly heal, emotionally. 💗 I LOVE how your offer supports your clients IN the moment. Versus once a week.
As an externalizer myself, this is the type of support that I wish that I had when I going to therapy. It would have helped me tremendously, had I known that was actually a need of mine. 😊
The work that you offer is truly beautiful and SOOO needed. Keep shining your light so that those who need it can find you!!!!! ✨️
Tanya, thank you so much for this! I’m really glad the way I support clients in the moment resonates with you. That real-time connection makes a huge difference. It's where real healing happens.
How did you find ways to manage your needs while in therapy? I’d love to hear more about your experience.
I SEE and FEEL the genuineness in who you are and what you offer your clients. It's SO refreshing to witness, how can I NOT cheer you on? 😊 It's important for me to celebrate the authenticity that I sense from you. So that you too know what it feels like to be on the receiving end of being seen. As that's exactly what you provide with the amazing work that you offer the world, simply by BEING, you.
Funny enough, I actually quit going to therapy a long time ago. Because I could not seem to find someone who was able to truly SEE and support me in ways that I needed. 🤷♀️ What has helped me the MOST, has been being in partnership with a man who has ALWAYS, truly seen through my masks, down to the core of my sensitive and gentle being. He is VERY gifted in being able to truly SEE and hear what someones pain is REALLY saying. He's the most gracious human that I’ve ever met. He's ALWAYS encouraged my sensitivity, he's simply just loved me for EXACTLY who I am(quirks and all), not who he wanted me to be. He's pushed me and continues to push me to use my voice. He wants my truth, regardless if he feels some sort of way about any of it. He wants it all. Not just a curated, put together version that I've been made to believe is the ONLY way to be loved for WHO I am. He accepts and holds space for my need to externally process. He knows that it helps me to further understand myself. I learn SO much about myself THROUGH connections with others. I praise God for bringing him into my life. I am a completely different woman today, 6 years in and I am still learning how to love and accept myself through the love and grace that he gives me. ❤️ It's MF humbling and DEEPLY confronting be to loved in this way. It's NOT for the faint of heart, but it's SO worth every bit of struggle. 💗
Please know that the value of your work, is simply because of WHO you are. People can FEEL it and that's what they are drawn to!!!!!! ✨️
Keep shining brightly, we need your light more now than ever ✨️
Tanya, your words truly touched me. Really felt this: "So that you too know what it feels like to be on the receiving end of being seen." Thank you for sharing your journey and the deep connection you’ve found. It’s such a powerful reminder that real healing happens through genuine partnership and being seen for exactly who we are, quirks and all. I’m honored that my work resonates with you and grateful for your encouragement. Keep shining your light too. The world needs more of your authentic presence.
I’ve been trying to name this feeling for years — the way “work” asks me to be two people at once: the masked performer & the burnt-out core underneath. You gave it language.
Thank you for not polishing it smooth. For letting it be jagged & tired & still standing.
We see you. We’re with you. And maybe we’re not broken — maybe we’re just misread.
That means more than I can say. You put it perfectly: two people at once. The version we perform and the version we hide just to make it through. That split takes such a toll… not just on our energy, but on our sense of self.
And you’re right, we’re not broken. Just misread, like you said. Misunderstood by systems that reward the mask and ignore the soul underneath.
I’m grateful you felt this. The fact that it hit quiet but deep is exactly the space I want to keep writing from. Thank you for naming it with so much honesty.
THIS!!!!! THIS is the way to truly heal, emotionally. 💗 I LOVE how your offer supports your clients IN the moment. Versus once a week.
As an externalizer myself, this is the type of support that I wish that I had when I going to therapy. It would have helped me tremendously, had I known that was actually a need of mine. 😊
The work that you offer is truly beautiful and SOOO needed. Keep shining your light so that those who need it can find you!!!!! ✨️
Tanya, thank you so much for this! I’m really glad the way I support clients in the moment resonates with you. That real-time connection makes a huge difference. It's where real healing happens.
How did you find ways to manage your needs while in therapy? I’d love to hear more about your experience.
You are SO welcome Zalman. ✨️
I SEE and FEEL the genuineness in who you are and what you offer your clients. It's SO refreshing to witness, how can I NOT cheer you on? 😊 It's important for me to celebrate the authenticity that I sense from you. So that you too know what it feels like to be on the receiving end of being seen. As that's exactly what you provide with the amazing work that you offer the world, simply by BEING, you.
Funny enough, I actually quit going to therapy a long time ago. Because I could not seem to find someone who was able to truly SEE and support me in ways that I needed. 🤷♀️ What has helped me the MOST, has been being in partnership with a man who has ALWAYS, truly seen through my masks, down to the core of my sensitive and gentle being. He is VERY gifted in being able to truly SEE and hear what someones pain is REALLY saying. He's the most gracious human that I’ve ever met. He's ALWAYS encouraged my sensitivity, he's simply just loved me for EXACTLY who I am(quirks and all), not who he wanted me to be. He's pushed me and continues to push me to use my voice. He wants my truth, regardless if he feels some sort of way about any of it. He wants it all. Not just a curated, put together version that I've been made to believe is the ONLY way to be loved for WHO I am. He accepts and holds space for my need to externally process. He knows that it helps me to further understand myself. I learn SO much about myself THROUGH connections with others. I praise God for bringing him into my life. I am a completely different woman today, 6 years in and I am still learning how to love and accept myself through the love and grace that he gives me. ❤️ It's MF humbling and DEEPLY confronting be to loved in this way. It's NOT for the faint of heart, but it's SO worth every bit of struggle. 💗
Please know that the value of your work, is simply because of WHO you are. People can FEEL it and that's what they are drawn to!!!!!! ✨️
Keep shining brightly, we need your light more now than ever ✨️
Tanya, your words truly touched me. Really felt this: "So that you too know what it feels like to be on the receiving end of being seen." Thank you for sharing your journey and the deep connection you’ve found. It’s such a powerful reminder that real healing happens through genuine partnership and being seen for exactly who we are, quirks and all. I’m honored that my work resonates with you and grateful for your encouragement. Keep shining your light too. The world needs more of your authentic presence.
This hit like a quiet earthquake.
I’ve been trying to name this feeling for years — the way “work” asks me to be two people at once: the masked performer & the burnt-out core underneath. You gave it language.
Thank you for not polishing it smooth. For letting it be jagged & tired & still standing.
We see you. We’re with you. And maybe we’re not broken — maybe we’re just misread.
That means more than I can say. You put it perfectly: two people at once. The version we perform and the version we hide just to make it through. That split takes such a toll… not just on our energy, but on our sense of self.
And you’re right, we’re not broken. Just misread, like you said. Misunderstood by systems that reward the mask and ignore the soul underneath.
I’m grateful you felt this. The fact that it hit quiet but deep is exactly the space I want to keep writing from. Thank you for naming it with so much honesty.