I used to think my irritation meant they were the problem. But recently, I’ve started seeing it as a mirror—showing me where I haven’t grown, where I’m still waiting to be rescued emotionally. That line—'you are also refusing to change'—is like a bell that keeps ringing in my chest. Thank you for writing this. It’s not just emotionally true—it’s a spiritual principle. One I’m still learning to embody.
That’s such a powerful shift and beautifully put. Seeing irritation as a mirror instead of a verdict takes real courage and self honesty. That line about refusing to change comes from hard won lessons and I’m really glad it resonated. It is a spiritual principle and like all of them, simple to say and lifelong to live. Keep going. You’re clearly doing the deep work.
I went through this myself!! Learning to reflect on myself and the changes i could personally make was the best decision of my life!!
I finally have peace with this person and I'm not longer so easily triggered!! It's amazing how much a shift in perspective can really change an inflammatory situation!!
Zalman you are really doing some amazing work here!! I love reading your articles and notes!! They really resonate with me!!
I wish I could have found your work alot earlier in my life 🤣😂🤣 it took me soook long to learn this stuff!!
I used to think my irritation meant they were the problem. But recently, I’ve started seeing it as a mirror—showing me where I haven’t grown, where I’m still waiting to be rescued emotionally. That line—'you are also refusing to change'—is like a bell that keeps ringing in my chest. Thank you for writing this. It’s not just emotionally true—it’s a spiritual principle. One I’m still learning to embody.
That’s such a powerful shift and beautifully put. Seeing irritation as a mirror instead of a verdict takes real courage and self honesty. That line about refusing to change comes from hard won lessons and I’m really glad it resonated. It is a spiritual principle and like all of them, simple to say and lifelong to live. Keep going. You’re clearly doing the deep work.
I went through this myself!! Learning to reflect on myself and the changes i could personally make was the best decision of my life!!
I finally have peace with this person and I'm not longer so easily triggered!! It's amazing how much a shift in perspective can really change an inflammatory situation!!
Zalman you are really doing some amazing work here!! I love reading your articles and notes!! They really resonate with me!!
I wish I could have found your work alot earlier in my life 🤣😂🤣 it took me soook long to learn this stuff!!