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PEOPLE-PLEASING QUIZ 💬

Is people-pleasing running your life?

Take this quick quiz to find out how deeply people-pleasing shows up in your day-to-day—and whether it's time to start saying no without guilt.

You'll get a personalized result that shows your pattern—and what kind of support makes sense for where you are now.

✅ Just 2 minutes

✅ Super relatable questions

✅ Free guide included at the end

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5 Steps to Say No Without Guilt

If you struggle with people-pleasing, this free guide is a must-read.
It walks you through five simple but powerful steps to help you stop saying yes out of guilt, start setting boundaries without fear, and reconnect with your true self.
You'll learn why saying no feels so hard, how to handle guilt and fear, and how to build real confidence—without becoming harsh or selfish.
Download this guide now to start feeling stronger, calmer, and more in control of your life and relationships.

Don’t Go On A Date Before U Ask These 5 Qs

A must-read for anyone seeking a meaningful, compatible relationship. This free guide introduces five essential questions to ask before going on a date, helping you filter out incompatible matches early on. These questions give you insights into potential red flags, help you save time, and prevent emotional setbacks. Download this guide now to feel empowered, make informed choices, and get much closer to dating better people and finding the right person for you.

Fix Your Relationship With 3 Weekly Meetings

This transformative guide is perfect for couples at any stage—dating, newly married, or in a long-term relationship. With this straightforward approach, you'll uncover three essential weekly meetings that can help you stay connected, communicate better, and keep your relationship strong. Ideal for both new and seasoned relationships, this guide offers the tools to create a deeper connection and resilience together. Download your free copy now to get started!

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Working With Feelings Charts

Can’t Fall Asleep or Stay Asleep?

Introduction to Life Patterns

Abandonment Life Pattern

Emotional Deprivation Life Pattern

Social Exclusion Life Pattern

Dependence

Life Pattern

Vulnerability

Life Pattern

Defectiveness

Life Pattern

Failure

Life Pattern

Unrelenting Standards

Life Pattern

Entitlement

Life Pattern

Subjugation

Life Pattern

Mistrust & Abuse

Life Pattern