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Dating Advice | The Key Sign It's Now A Relationship

Updated: Feb 9


When does a relationship begin, and how can you discern the signs? What are the key indicators? Many people wonder about this, so let's shed some light on it. It's a straightforward concept but incredibly crucial. Many make mistakes in understanding it.


You might have heard of the "honeymoon phase." After meeting and vetting each other, people often analyze the real or fake chemistry and assess compatibility. However, a relationship doesn't truly form until a pivotal moment: a disagreement, a mistake, or an argument. This is the test that determines if it's more than just dating.


Contrary to the belief that the end of the honeymoon phase marks the decline of a relationship, it's the beginning. It transforms from mere dating to a genuine relationship when faced with challenges. This is where you test the foundations and discover if you're truly compatible. Until then, the smooth progress might result from not being tested.


Here's some dating advice: the key sign that the dating is now a relationship is how both parties handle mistakes or conflicts. Do they own up to it, apologize sincerely, and try to rectify it? This is crucial because it reveals commitment and the importance of the relationship to both individuals.


Trust is built when someone recognizes and corrects their mistakes because it shows they care about not hurting or disappointing you. On the other hand, if someone can't own up to their mistakes, is defensive, or shifts the blame, it's a red flag. Trust is eroded when actions don't align with words.


Transitioning from dating to a relationship is not about a smooth ride but about navigating and overcoming challenges together. It's not the end; it's the beginning of something deeper and more meaningful. So, rather than viewing it as the end of the honeymoon phase, see it as the initiation of a crucial test for the relationship.


If you want to delve deeper into this concept or have specific questions, schedule a free consultation and check out the other informative videos on my YouTube channel – be sure to like, subscribe, and share while you're there :)


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